Imposter syndrome
Psychotherapy for Imposter Syndrome
For women whose experience and achievements are visible to everyone else, while inside they still wonder whether they really belong.
You might recognise
- Putting achievements down to luck, timing or someone else's help
- Worrying that others will discover you are not as capable as they think
- Preparing far beyond what is needed, just to feel able to show up
- Finding praise hard to take in, while criticism stays with you
The gap between what others see and what you feel
You may have years of experience and still feel exposed in a meeting, a new role or a room full of people you admire. You know the evidence of what you can do, but it does not quite reach the part of you that feels unsure.
Imposter syndrome is a familiar name for this experience, not a diagnosis. It can be lonely to carry, especially when others turn to you for confidence and reassurance.
What it means to be seen
We might explore how recognition, comparison and expectations have felt throughout your life. Sometimes being noticed brings not only pride, but a fear of being judged or of having to keep proving yourself.
These feelings may be connected with perfectionism, anxiety or burnout. We also make room for what is happening around you now. Exclusion, unfair expectations or a workplace where you do not feel valued are not simply problems in your thinking.
Looking beyond another reassurance
My background in corporate life helps me recognise how professional competence and private self-doubt can sit alongside each other. In therapy, we look beyond a list of achievements to understand why reassurance may be so difficult to hold on to.
You do not have to convince me that you deserve to be here. We can stay with the uncertainty, notice the voice that questions your place, and explore what it has meant to feel accepted as you are.
In Basingstoke and online
I offer this work in person in Basingstoke, Hampshire, and online across the UK. Sessions are 50 minutes, weekly, and begin with a free initial call.
Related areas
- Psychotherapy for AnxietyFor women who look calm and capable from the outside, while inside the worry rarely switches off.Read more
- Psychotherapy for BurnoutFor women who have kept going for so long that exhaustion has started to feel normal.Read more
- Psychotherapy for Work-Related IssuesFor capable women for whom work has become a source of pressure, self-doubt or constant striving.Read more
- Psychotherapy for PerfectionismFor women who put so much into getting things right, yet rarely feel able to let what they have done be enough.Read more
- Psychotherapy for Low Self-esteemFor women who offer understanding to others, yet find it hard to feel worthy of that same gentleness themselves.Read more
Begin gently
If something here feels familiar, you are welcome to get in touch. You do not need to know exactly what to say.
Book a free initial call